Features
Discovery & Dating: Find, Message and Meet BBW Near You
Daily matches, private messages and chat rooms, all built to get you from hello to a meet.
Three levels, one site
Everyone starts on Classic. VIP adds unlimited messaging and sharper search, and VIP Plus adds visibility tools on top. What each costs is on the pricing page.
| Feature | Classic | VIP | VIP Plus |
|---|---|---|---|
| Build a profile and browse members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Daily match suggestions | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Post photos and updates | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Answer messages from VIP and VIP Plus members | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| ID verification badge | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Unlimited messaging | No | Yes | Yes |
| Search by city, distance and what someone is open to | No | Yes | Yes |
| Members-only chat rooms | No | Yes | Yes |
| Private group chats, up to 50 people | No | Yes | Yes |
| See everyone who likes you | No | Yes | Yes |
| Rewind profiles you passed on | No | Yes | Yes |
| Exclusive matches and top of the match stack | No | No | Yes |
| Priority placement for your messages and likes | No | No | Yes |
Discovery
Find your people faster
You say who you want to meet. The site does the sorting.
Daily matches
Every day you get a short list of members who suit what you asked for. The site weighs the ages you like, who you want to meet, how near you live, how recently someone logged in, what each of you is looking for, habits such as drinking and smoking, and any interests you share. Tag yourself BBW, BHM, SSBBW, curvy or plus sized and you land in front of people who know exactly what those words mean.
Search
On VIP and VIP Plus you can narrow the list by city, by distance, or by what a person says they are open to. A few minutes of filtering beats an evening of scrolling.
The discovery feed
A scrolling feed of posts, photos and articles from members near you or with the same interests. It is a low-pressure way to get a feel for someone before you send a message.
Talk the way you want to
Message one to one, in the site, without handing over your phone number. VIP members also get members-only chat rooms, which are moderated, and private group chats for up to 50 people, handy for getting a feel for a crowd before you go one to one.
- Send as many messages as you like on VIP and VIP Plus. Classic members get a small daily allowance and can still reply to any VIP or VIP Plus member who writes first.
- Add photos and updates from your computer or phone, and comment on posts, polls and quizzes.
- Send a Super Match on VIP Plus: your message arrives highlighted, and your profile is the first thing the other person sees.
- Add a Boost on VIP Plus to lift your profile in front of active members nearby for a while.
Trust tools you can see
Every one of them is in your hands before you meet. The safety page has the full list.
ID verification
Pass the optional ID check and a badge sits on your profile. Prefer no paperwork? A live video check with a moderator does the job.
Ratings and feedback
Every member has a reputation score built from behavior and feedback, and you can vote an interaction up or down in one click.
Blurred by default
Sensitive images are blurred with a warning until you decide to look, so nothing lands on your screen by surprise.
Report any profile in one tap. Support answers by chat, phone and message, any hour of the day.
Quick questions about the tools
What does VIP add?
VIP lifts the daily message cap and adds search filters, members-only chat rooms, private group chats, a rewind button, a list of who likes you and priority on your comments. VIP Plus brings exclusive matches and priority placement as well.
Is there a Fat F-Buddy app?
It runs in any mobile browser, and an icon on your home screen launches it like any other app. The BBW hookup app page walks you through the setup.
Can other members see my real name?
No. You choose a username, your real name and email never show, and only your nearest town or city appears on your profile. You decide when to share anything more, and with whom.
What are Boosts and Super Match?
Both are extras that VIP Plus members pay for on top of the plan. A Boost pushes your profile to active members close to you, and a Super Match marks your message so it stands out when it lands.
Keep looking around
Put your profile in front of the right people
Build it on Classic in a minute, tag what fits and see who your daily matches bring.
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