About us
Our Mission: Fat F-Buddy, Online Since 2012
An honest, respectful place for adults who want no strings fun.
Say what you want, meet who wants it too
Our mission is to give adults an honest, safe way to meet for no strings fun, with real people and respect at the center of everything we do.
Fat F-Buddy has been online since the summer of 2012, and the question on the home page then is the one it asks today. The idea hasn't changed: here, a bigger body isn't a category to scroll past or a joke to make. It's the point. Members are BBW and plus-size women, big men and the people who are drawn to them, and nobody has to explain why.
That's also why the site stays out of the way. You say what you want on your profile, you meet people who want the same, and either of you can walk away at any time with no hard feelings and no explanation.
Made for BBW, big men and the people who like them
BBW and plus-size women
Women who like their bodies and want to be wanted for them, without the awkward first question.
BHM and big men
Men with a bit more of everything, meeting people who like it that way.
Admirers
Adults who find bigger bodies attractive and want to say so to people who will welcome it.
It's for one-to-one meets between adults, 18 and over, and about three in four members are between 35 and 64.
House rules every member agrees to
These keep the site pleasant for the people on it. Break them badly or often and the membership can end.
Adults only
You must be 18 or over, or 21 where 18 is not the age of majority.
One real person per profile
Use your own photos and your own details. Companies and businesses are not allowed, and nobody sells goods, services or sex through the site.
Be kind
Talk to people the way you would want to be talked to. If someone is not your type, a polite no is plenty.
Be tolerant
No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism or body-shaming, and no hate speech of any kind.
Be safe
Keep early conversations on the site. Never send money, gift cards or bank details to anyone.
Be discreet
Many members keep this private. If you spot someone in public, approach only if they have said you may.
Respect boundaries
No means no. Ask before you send images and respect people’s comfort zones as things move on.
Follow the law
No illegal content or activity, including violence, drugs and anything involving minors.
Behind the site
Who stands behind it
A dating platform handles the technical side, so the site can get on with introductions.
That platform is HubPeople, Fat F-Buddy's dating service provider, and it supplies the technology, the moderators and the 24-hour support team. That's why you can report a profile in one tap, get an answer from a person at any hour and have your photos screened when you upload them.
Membership has three levels: Classic, where everyone starts, then VIP and VIP Plus. The features page lays out each one and the pricing page shows what they cost. The safety page covers the checks, and the legit guide answers the question straight.
Who we are, and other fair questions
Who runs Fat F-Buddy?
The site is built with the HubPeople dating platform, which provides the technology, the moderation and the support team. The terms and policies are linked from the footer of every page.
How long has Fat F-Buddy been online?
Since 2012. The Internet Archive’s Wayback Machine has the site on record from July of that year, with the same name and the same opening question on its home page.
Is Fat F-Buddy for couples?
It is built for one-to-one meets between two adults. The member cards on the site show women and men, and the guides assume two people deciding together what they want and where to meet.
Where do members actually meet?
Wherever the two of you agree. Fat F-Buddy is where you find each other and talk; the meeting itself is yours to arrange, and a public place suits a first one. The first-meet guide has a simple plan.